Obsessed

Tuesday, May 5, 2015


    Mariah Carey's song "Obsessed" dictates it is a horrible, foul thing to allow one person to consume your mind. Even Webster's defines the word as "to preoccupy the mind of someone continually, intrusively, and to a troubling extent." Still negative. So I wonder- can we be completely and utterly fascinated with an individual and it not be a bad thing? Or is it the fact that we spend so much time dwelling automatically awful? Is it imposible for it to be a positive?
     I sure hope it isn't, because seriously, like Bella Swan said from Twilight, I [am] unconditionally and irrevocably in love with him. And thereby obsessed. 


I can't help but love him.

In 10 days he's starting Grad School!
He is the only one working in our family right now. 
For the past year he has been our ward's Elders' Quorum President -believe me,  that entails a lot.
He just has so much on his plate right now. I see how stressed out he gets at times, but he handles it so incredibly well, much more than I would be able to.

    In addition to the busy work he does all day long: he supports me, uplifts me, lets me cry on him, pushes me to succeed and gives me things I need. Lately, I have felt the weight of highs and lows, sorrow and joy and a billion feelings at once. I simply can't express my gratitude of having someone important to me to voice it all to, to have someone I adore be able to calm my fears and to have someone I love more than life say special prayers with me.

    It makes my heart swell to talk about how freaking great of a person he is! I recently had an interview, at one point it was said, "Your husband is lucky to have you." And I had to make a rebuttal and say, "No, I am lucky to have him!"

And I am. I love you Graham. Thanks for everything you do for me!

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Obsessed

Tuesday, May 5, 2015


    Mariah Carey's song "Obsessed" dictates it is a horrible, foul thing to allow one person to consume your mind. Even Webster's defines the word as "to preoccupy the mind of someone continually, intrusively, and to a troubling extent." Still negative. So I wonder- can we be completely and utterly fascinated with an individual and it not be a bad thing? Or is it the fact that we spend so much time dwelling automatically awful? Is it imposible for it to be a positive?
     I sure hope it isn't, because seriously, like Bella Swan said from Twilight, I [am] unconditionally and irrevocably in love with him. And thereby obsessed. 


I can't help but love him.

In 10 days he's starting Grad School!
He is the only one working in our family right now. 
For the past year he has been our ward's Elders' Quorum President -believe me,  that entails a lot.
He just has so much on his plate right now. I see how stressed out he gets at times, but he handles it so incredibly well, much more than I would be able to.

    In addition to the busy work he does all day long: he supports me, uplifts me, lets me cry on him, pushes me to succeed and gives me things I need. Lately, I have felt the weight of highs and lows, sorrow and joy and a billion feelings at once. I simply can't express my gratitude of having someone important to me to voice it all to, to have someone I adore be able to calm my fears and to have someone I love more than life say special prayers with me.

    It makes my heart swell to talk about how freaking great of a person he is! I recently had an interview, at one point it was said, "Your husband is lucky to have you." And I had to make a rebuttal and say, "No, I am lucky to have him!"

And I am. I love you Graham. Thanks for everything you do for me!

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